If you’re having a little problem with picking up women, chances are your efforts are not enough. For some, having a lot of guts can really get you started.
But how do you kick yourself up to get those guts? You will be successful in your endeavor with women if you’re willing to learn a few basic things.
There is that rule one should follow when approaching a woman: always make eye to eye contact first before approaching her. She will appreciate it more since you are being more polite and have made sure she is always comfortable when you approach her.
Look at her eyes when you talk with her. Make sure you also break the gaze from time to time. If you don’t, she might feel uncomfortable and may decide that you are too aggressive for her own good.
A very good way to start a conversation with a girl you are interested in, is by giving a sincere smile and saying “Hi!”–this will surely get her attracted to you. Being a little bit flirty with your gaze will surely get some sparks going on.
When asking questions, ask those that require her to give you more than just a simple “yes” or “no” response. An example of a close-ended question would be asking her if she likes chocolate milk shake.
Such questions would be: “What is your idea of a vacation and why do you consider it to be so?” Such a question will eliminate the gaps in between conversations. Also, try to ask questions on subjects that you know will be interesting to her too.
Also, by employing some amount of appropriate touching, you can very well increase the attraction between the two of you. Make sure you employ it with taste, not being too aggressive and not disrespectful. You want her to be attracted to you–not turned off by your unwanted advances.
One approach in employing the sense of touch is by pointing at her bracelet. You then hold her hand to look at it closely while saying you find the bracelet beautiful. This will be subtle and she will not take your approach to be overly aggressive.
A few simple ideas have been taken up here. These are effective as a guide to picking up women. Follow these carefully and you will be on the right track to succeeding with women.
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